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Does Unconditional Love Apply to Destructive Behavior?
Does Unconditional Love Apply to Destructive Behavior?
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When you get married you are supposed to love your spouse until death do you part. You have committed for better or for worse. You have said I will have unconditional love for you. But what happens when your spouse exhibits destructive behavior? Does unconditional love still apply?
I recently read an article on YourTango that shared a story of a counseling session in which the woman didn’t believe the man was loving her without conditions. He responded he was trying to support her being healthy for them both. She felt that was a condition, and the disagreement continued until the counselor stepped in with a few questions.
The questions were intended to discover if they had truly shown unconditional love or were simply trying to have control over the other person. If it wasn’t just for control, were the behaviors truly destructive and in need of this type of tough, unconditional love?
Below are 8 behaviors that may require some tough, unconditional love. Do you agree that unconditional love does not apply in these circumstances, or does it?
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How to Resolve Multilingual Dating
Internet Dating – Sadly. I’m A Bit Of An Expert
The Four Horsemen of a Relationship Apocalypse
Expectations: The Death of Love
How to Quit Mr. Wrong (Even If He’s Good in Bed)
When you get married you are supposed to love your spouse until death do you part. You have committed for better or for worse. You have said I will have unconditional love for you. But what happens when your spouse exhibits destructive behavior? Does unconditional love still apply?
I recently read an article on YourTango that shared a story of a counseling session in which the woman didn’t believe the man was loving her without conditions. He responded he was trying to support her being healthy for them both. She felt that was a condition, and the disagreement continued until the counselor stepped in with a few questions.
The questions were intended to discover if they had truly shown unconditional love or were simply trying to have control over the other person. If it wasn’t just for control, were the behaviors truly destructive and in need of this type of tough, unconditional love?
Below are 8 behaviors that may require some tough, unconditional love. Do you agree that unconditional love does not apply in these circumstances, or does it?
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08.05.2022
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08.05.2022
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Sleeping over?
Sleeping over?
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Today I have a question for you dear readers. I have been pondering this for a while and have tried it a few times, and I just can’t decide how I feel about it. I am talking about the mid-week sleepover.
LC and I have done this a few times in the past. He’ll come over for dinner or something, we’ll curl up on the couch, then someone gets sleepy. And suddenly, leaving seems like a bad idea and he offers to simply stay over. Perhaps the necessary toiletries and clothing are available, perhaps they aren’t. We’ve had it happen both ways. But he has stayed nonetheless.
It all seems very sweet and innocent at first. But then sometimes things can go awry. First of all, once everyone climbs into bed together in the dark and cuddling commences, things can happen. Now don’t misunderstand, the things, they are good. We like those things. Oh yes we do. Alas, we also get up very very early in the morning. And those things are stealing sleep from us. Oh yes they are. Unfortunately this is something I never think of until the time is already long lost.
Then there’s the matter of actually sleeping with someone who isn’t usually there. The bed feels different, pillows feel different, and the over all temperature and cover situation is all messed up. Sometimes to the point where sleep is greatly interrupted and seriously lost.
And after all of that, there’s the next morning. I have no extra keys so LC either has to leave before me or we have to leave at the same time. Now my morning routine is carefully tailored to my needs and does not have a moment to spare. (Because if there were a moment to spare, I’d sleep in it.) And still, I am usually running a little on the late side. But now my one bathroom has to be shared by two people and there is another whole routine to be accommodated. Invariably I end up running seriously late with bad hair.
By the time it’s all said and done I look and feel disheveled, and I’m missing a large chunk of sleep. The first few times, the smooshy happy cuddly feeling overtakes me, mixes with my morning caffeine, and fuels me through the day. But after that, I sleep less and feel crabbier when I wake up. I get annoyed at having to share the shower and blow dry my hair in the bedroom. And I usually forget to put on mascara or something.
None of this is meant to imply that I don’t adore the sleepovers. But the weekend ones are so much easier to handle. The alarm doesn’t go off at 5 AM, I don’t care how long he takes in the shower, and distractions in bed are welcome as there is no finite limit on sleep. Since we are rushing to nowhere I finish getting ready in the actual bathroom and then curl up with a book or the TV remote while he takes his time getting done. And once we’re both ready, we go grab food at a relaxed and leisurely pace.
But LC keeps pushing for the mid-week sleepovers too. And I feel bad saying no. I mean, despite all I’ve said here, I do like falling asleep and waking up in his arms. I like the way he reaches for me every time he stirs. I like the way we only use a little over half of the queen-sized bed. I like hitting snooze on the alarm and rolling over to cuddle back into his waiting arms.
And it all leaves me wondering, is this just me? Or are the mid-week sleepovers troublesome for others too? What say you, my gentle readers?
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Today I have a question for you dear readers. I have been pondering this for a while and have tried it a few times, and I just can’t decide how I feel about it. I am talking about the mid-week sleepover.
LC and I have done this a few times in the past. He’ll come over for dinner or something, we’ll curl up on the couch, then someone gets sleepy. And suddenly, leaving seems like a bad idea and he offers to simply stay over. Perhaps the necessary toiletries and clothing are available, perhaps they aren’t. We’ve had it happen both ways. But he has stayed nonetheless.
It all seems very sweet and innocent at first. But then sometimes things can go awry. First of all, once everyone climbs into bed together in the dark and cuddling commences, things can happen. Now don’t misunderstand, the things, they are good. We like those things. Oh yes we do. Alas, we also get up very very early in the morning. And those things are stealing sleep from us. Oh yes they are. Unfortunately this is something I never think of until the time is already long lost.
Then there’s the matter of actually sleeping with someone who isn’t usually there. The bed feels different, pillows feel different, and the over all temperature and cover situation is all messed up. Sometimes to the point where sleep is greatly interrupted and seriously lost.
And after all of that, there’s the next morning. I have no extra keys so LC either has to leave before me or we have to leave at the same time. Now my morning routine is carefully tailored to my needs and does not have a moment to spare. (Because if there were a moment to spare, I’d sleep in it.) And still, I am usually running a little on the late side. But now my one bathroom has to be shared by two people and there is another whole routine to be accommodated. Invariably I end up running seriously late with bad hair.
By the time it’s all said and done I look and feel disheveled, and I’m missing a large chunk of sleep. The first few times, the smooshy happy cuddly feeling overtakes me, mixes with my morning caffeine, and fuels me through the day. But after that, I sleep less and feel crabbier when I wake up. I get annoyed at having to share the shower and blow dry my hair in the bedroom. And I usually forget to put on mascara or something.
None of this is meant to imply that I don’t adore the sleepovers. But the weekend ones are so much easier to handle. The alarm doesn’t go off at 5 AM, I don’t care how long he takes in the shower, and distractions in bed are welcome as there is no finite limit on sleep. Since we are rushing to nowhere I finish getting ready in the actual bathroom and then curl up with a book or the TV remote while he takes his time getting done. And once we’re both ready, we go grab food at a relaxed and leisurely pace.
But LC keeps pushing for the mid-week sleepovers too. And I feel bad saying no. I mean, despite all I’ve said here, I do like falling asleep and waking up in his arms. I like the way he reaches for me every time he stirs. I like the way we only use a little over half of the queen-sized bed. I like hitting snooze on the alarm and rolling over to cuddle back into his waiting arms.
And it all leaves me wondering, is this just me? Or are the mid-week sleepovers troublesome for others too? What say you, my gentle readers?
Début de l'événement
12.05.2023
Fin de l'événement
12.05.2023
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http://
Yeswikiday
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